Best Couple Psychologists In New York Near Me

Craig Schlumpf: This workshop was great. There is a lot of material to cover and Saul makes sure that all important points are understood, and that each couple has their questions answered during the entire weekend and during each activity. He is a capable speaker that clearly has a passion for his work and it shows. I think any couple has something to gain from this workshop and I can say for certain it has made me more cognizant of my role and communication style in my own relationship. Thank you Saul!

persephone persephone: . To keep it private Saul put on music during the exercises so no one can hear you.One of my biggest takeaways is that there is so much in common with struggling couples, even though we all think we are unique. we learned that fight dynamics have have certain principles, themes and even roles to them. so many lightbulbs went off for me. Another very big takeaway is what ongoing attitudes, practices and rituals can exacerbate or lessen the impact of the actual conflict. I would recommend this to any couple, even the "strongest" and I would recommend it to anyone about to get married too.while the course is over we now have card decks, graphics and keywords to remind us of the principles, and so many other tools in the book. I feel very enlightened, like we are now in the know about these secret tools and principles! I think what blew my mind the most was the exercise for the last stage of repairing a conflict, in which you find commonalities of feelings and values. that was the moment we realized we really were on the same side and having the same experience even though it didn't look like it. it's also very useful to watch your partner's level of openness and engagement to what is being offered; if you are both willing to receive the information and try the exercises there is great hope.a few pieces of feedback to mention on how it could be even more awesome, even though these are extremely, extremely minor in the grand scheme: I was a little disappointed that we didn't do the "softened start-up" exercise even though it was listed in the book. it's the only thing I had heard of before the course and I knew I desperately needed it. I also recommend not letting couples leave the room to do the exercises, because my partner and I even had a fight about where to sit to do the exercise!!! if we had had to stay in the room it would have eliminated this variable :

Andrew Schilling: My Fiancée and I received the Gottman workshop as a gift ahead of our wedding. It was a fantastic experience and provided really great insights into the dynamics of a relationship and the tools to build healthy habits and methods of communication. We are so much more confident in the road ahead due to this class. Saul was a great workshop leader and we would recommend this class to any couple!

Greg: Can’t recommend Saul, his practice and his workshop enough. He clearly cares deeply about helping couples find success in building their lives together. We left the workshop with a fresh view on ourselves, each other and our relationship, and with tools for making our relationship rewarding and exciting for life. I’m excited for this next journey with my wife, and thankful Saul’s genuine interest in helping us move beyond help and back to each other.

Corey Fischer: I can genuinely and confidently say I would recommend this course to everyone, e.g., dating, engaged or married. This will give you a proven and sound method, not a bunch of trendy BS that really doesn't work.I loved it.

Ron H: One of the most life changing things I have ever done was attend Saul's workshop. Don't know what stroke of luck led me to find the workshop but my wife and I were on the edge of divorce. We were unable to even talk about the most mundane things without an argument, living separate lives side by side. This was the last shot, to find a professional to guide us through the hurt and reconnect us as a unit. By the mid point of the last day we had opened up more profoundly to each other than at any other time together. A little over a week later we are still using the tools taught and continue growing our friendship and love. Yes, the love returned. 1 week from the last day we said "I love you" for the first time in what seems like years. Suffice to say, our marriage was probably more broken than most but IT WORKS. If anyone out there is in despair or just want to build stronger bonds just do it, no need to search further. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts Saul.

Chelsey: LGBTQ+, poly/ENM- I think that leaving out personal political views is important for keeping the focus on the materialOverall we totally recommend this workshop for any committed couple who wishes to have a healthier, happier and more fulfilling relationship. We love the foundational philosophy of respect, friendship, trust, reliance and goodwill between partners. Thank you so much Saul and Gottman Institute!

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Cynthia Rae: .We both appreciated being able to walk away with materials to use for long term

wanda antes: This workshop uses science-based research and provides straightforward interventions that make a difference in how we manage conflict. Helps build the foundation so that conflicts serve as challenges for growth instead of destruction. Every couple can tailor the session for what works for them. Meaningful work that will continue in our lives.

Annie C: My marriage is the most important thing in my life, so when I started searching for a couples counselor, you can bet I did my research...and because I am a mental healthcare professional myself, I knew the importance of finding someone properly trained in an evidence-based approach. My search led me to the Gottman method, and a weekend workshop seemed the perfect place to begin. I had the highest expectations for the weekend, and I am delighted to say the workshop far exceeded them. The content was everything I hoped it would be and more...but the best part by far was Saul Stern. His teaching style, his insights, and his vast knowledge and skills brought the content to life in truly beautiful and deeply meaningful ways. It is not an exaggeration to say this workshop changed my life. I am so excited to see the ways it will continue to change and grow my marriage. I am incredibly grateful for this exceptional experience. It is worth every penny. Sign up now.

elaine gulati: The weekend workshop for couples literally was the lifeline for my marriage. One week prior to attending we were talking about divorce and one day after the workshop we are back on track, making plans for vacations and nites-out like we used to. We are back on track thanks to the Gottman Institute! Saul is the best couples therapist! He is like the best friend to both partners whom is positive, insightful and encouraging; which is what every couple needs at times of distress. The tools he taught us are vital in every marriage, whether weathering a storm or not. We will be certainly recommending Saul and The Gottman Institute to friends and family.

Lisa Cusick: We have been talking about doing this workshop for a while. So happy we did it. It was extremely insightful and so helpful. Moving forward we are so excited to put the tools we learned from the weekend for positive changes for our relationship. So excited about the future. Thank you Saul!!!!

Kristie Contreras: This weekend was transformative for my husband and I. We walked out of that workshop on Sunday night feeling like we stepped into a brand new life, with our true love by our side. We spent way too many years arguing in circles and hurting each other accidentally. My only regret was that we didn’t find Saul sooner! He is an amazing resource, and absolute expert in his field, and a fantastic and engaging presenter. Don’t waste another minute… sign up as soon as you can.

Lena Alnakhebi: My husband and I just attended Saul’s couple’s workshop and it was great. Saul is warm, compassionate, and knowledgeable. The atmosphere was supportive, which allowed my partner and I to feel comfortable opening up and sharing our thoughts and feelings with each other.The workshop was a combination of individual exercises, and guided conversations, which provided us with the tools and skills to effectively communicate with each other, resolve conflicts, and build a stronger bond. Saul also taught us about the importance of empathy, active listening, and self-reflection, which are crucial for any healthy relationship.By the end of the workshop, my partner and I felt more connected than before. We left the workshop with a deeper understanding of each other's needs and a renewed sense of commitment to our relationship. I highly recommend this therapy workshop to anyone who wants to improve their relationship and build a stronger, healthier, and happier bond with their partner.

Larry Sternbach: The Gottman weekend was well worth it! Great content, true understanding of the couples dynamic, and excellently presented by Saul Stern. A long needed opportunity for us to truly connect. Highly recommended.

Jo Ann Buchalter: Saul was not only engaging , professional and a pure joy to work with . He took us on our own journey to successfully convey our needs from our partners while utilizing the Gottman method . A weekend well worth spent . A must do to enhance our love relationship .

Sehba Ali: It was an incredible weekend. I recommend Saul and this workshop for every couple. He was genuine and real.Thanks Saul

Ann Dai: Irina has been a crucial pillar of my support system and I very much appreciate her insight and observations, which help me greatly as I navigate this next chapter of my life.

Keira Chassman: I am an individual therapist who has referred many couples for couples therapy to Irina. I believe she is amongst the top therapists in NYC. She is very well trained, extremely experienced and she tailors her treatment approach to each client’s needs. My clients have told me that Irina makes them feel comfortable and safe from the get go. She is my “go to” couples therapist!

Shari Weiner: Irina is a very skilled counselor. She is very perceptive and provided me insight into the relationship issues with which I was handling. She then gave me suggested responses which have been most helpful. I recommend her without reservation.

Dariya Golan: My husband and I saw Irina for a couple's session. Irina exceeded our expectations. She's very smart, knowledgeable, and effective. Irina was able to quickly understand a complicated situation and offer valuable insights.

Darby Willcockson: I was going through a very trying time in my relationship and needed someone to help navigate us through the rough patch. Irina went above and beyond to ensure both my partner and I felt heard and the conversations were productive. Since going to her, I have noticed a huge change in my relationship with my partner and our family environment is much more positive for everyone. I highly recommend Irina should you ever need counseling!

Ana Yordanov: Irina Firstein helped us fall in love with each other again. We both are thankful for her professionalism and empathy. She understands human beings so well, it is like she is a scientist of human nature and emotions. Our kids are too young to know this - because of Irina they have two parents who love each other today. Also, individual therapy with Irina improved my life a great deal. Thank you Irina!

Misha Rudder: . She is intelligent, honest, and truly insightful and I have no idea where I'd be without her. Thank you Irina!!!

Diana Geffner-Ventura: Irina Firstein is second to none. She is straight forward yet warm, and has the sharpest, most refined sense of perspective you know is coming from the best of places. She is the essence of compassion, honesty, and absolute trust.

George Taylor: The therapists here have a unique ability to get to the root of the problem and provide tailored solutions. They have helped us to make real progress in our relationship.

Brian Campbell: Hal has a gentle and understanding manner that has helped us to open up to each other in ways that we never thought possible. We have made more progress in our relationship in a few sessions with Hal than in years of therapy with other counselors.

John Adams: We've been to several counseling sessions and have had a great experience every time. The therapists are excellent listeners and provide insightful and practical advice.

Mark Robinson: Hal has a gift for listening and giving practical advice that has helped us to improve our relationship. He is always professional and respectful, and we would highly recommend him to any couple.

Gregory Olivieri: Allia has been so helpful with my relationships; father, siblings, and interpersonal relationships. She is truly insightful and caring, and has really helped me.

Joe Owen: Professional couples counseling of long island has always been my safe place to vent. Earlier I had a hard time handling my anxieties and apprehensions. speaking with my therapist has helped me to overcome my issues and regain my confidence, a true life saver!

Boby Pacheco: Hello i want to know if you speak spanish?, becouse i need somebody to help my wife. I prefer in spanish becouse my wife dont speak inglish.

Sharla Jefferis: I have lost weight and feel much happier with his hypnotherapy sessions. Really he is great and I would like to highly recommend him to everyone.

Verene Gros: Three months ago I started attending Hal’s counseling sessions, and everyone found a huge change in my confidence. It is all because of Hal. All stars to him and his treatment.